Wednesday, March 4, 2009

About Networking and Community Service

On Tuesday Dee and I had a "home decorator" come to our place to help us pick paint colors for the walls, and to suggest other things that would dress up the place a little now that we've been here 14 months. (I met this gal at the Chamber networking" sessions.) She and Dee hit it off well, and the gal even offered to go shopping with Dee for some of the ideas suggested.

Then, I went to the "networking" lunch time meeting with the Chamber. It's always fun. I used my 60 seconds to talk about "hobbies" and that my hobby is singing. And that the great thing about my hobby is that we can use it to bring pleasure to other people. "We lift spirits and put smiles on people's faces." During the second half-hour we brainstormed together ways that have worked for us to make connections and to engage others so that they'll be interested in whatever service you have to offer them. A lot of good stuff was shared. A theme running through was "you have to listen to others in understand them before you they'll want to listen to you." That is, "encourage others to talk while you practice focused listening."

In the late afternoon we went to the Pittsburgh Home and Garden Show with the Campbells. It was fun walking around looking at the stuff and the demonstrations. Especially since we don't really need anything for the house. We did meet a guy Dee knew from high school who now owns Furniture Galleries on Route 8. He had some really nice chairs (very comfortable) for a mere $2,300! And we found a guy who installs window shades and blinds (remote control) which we are considering for the dormer windows at the front of the house. Those two windows let in the afternoon sun and they are so high up that we can't get to them even if they had regular blinds on them.

Afterward, we went to the Bettis Restaurant for dinner. I like that place because of their unique men's room. HA HA! I've never been in a place that has a one way window that looks out onto the restaurant area from the inside the men's room In fact, you have to be standing at a urinal in order to see through the window into the restaurant. (Of course from the restaurant side it looks like a large mirror). Amazing!

Rotary today was good - the people who went to the Hondorus medical trip for 8 days had returned and shared what they'd done there. (Water filtration, stove assistance as well as giving out meds, pulling teeth and checking eyes and giving out eye-glasses.) After the meeting we delivered Apple Dumpling Gang Coloring/ Activity books to the second graders of the Pine and Mars School districts. They have a teacher's storybook that tells a story that emphasises the "Four-Way Test" of Rotary. (Is it the Truth? Is it fair to all concerned? Does it build good will and better friendships? Is it benificial to all concerned?) The children can color the pictures, solve the puzzles and figure out the "word search" answers. It was fun. The teachers seemed to enjoy getting the books and the kids were thrilled. It seems the WORD SEARCH pages were a favorite. It was a nice afternoon.

Monday, March 2, 2009

After the Shower Was Over

Whew! The weekend was a busy one, but at the end of the day it was a good kind of tired. The baby shower went off without a hitch except that the baby's mom, Kerri, couldn't make it in person. The speakerphone idea work as a good back up though. Everyone who was planning to come came. We took lots of pictures and even some video footage. Here's a short clip from the Barbershop quartet (Sharp Edge) that came and sang to the gals and to Kerri via phone.

Earlier in the day I'd gone to pick my mom and to bring her to the shower. Since Kerri wasn't going to be spending the night, I invited my mom to pack for a sleepover. She did. It was nice that she could go to church with us on Sunday as I was singing with an a cappella quartet at church (2 guys 2 gals). From what people tell me it went well. She even went in to Dee's Sunday school class session. Since I had to be there at 7:45 a.m. because we were doing two services, it made a long day for me. We had lunch after worship and then drove mom home, turned around and drove back to Mars.

Sometime after the shower and before Sunday morning I started sneezing, watery eyes etc. I made it through the worship service okay. But it just got worse as the day progressed. So when I got back from dropping mom off, I went to be and slept for about 3 hours before joining with Dee for the evening. We'd stopped at Walgreens and the pharmacist recommended Claritin D. One pill every 24 hours. So I took that before the nap. It seemed to help and this morning I'm feeling somewhat better (75%) and am confident I'll improve during the day.

We're planning on going the Home and Garden Show in Pittsburgh later this morning and part of the afternoon. Here are some more pictures from the baby shower...